Pushed into Marriage

"Pushed Into Marriage"

What a world! She thinks she's up for marriage just because she's striked her 30s. He thinks he has to marry probably he's also in his late 30s. But watch this, marriage and age are different things altogether. You can be 40 in age but 17 in mind. You need to first be matured well enough. You need to train your emotions particularly to tolerate others. Again you need to have saved enough for your wedding and for the marriage, particularly after wedding. Don't get up and borrow money for your wedding, there's life in reality after the wedding. Again, you need to be able to manage yourself well especially if you're a man. You can't be disorganized everywhere and think you're going to marry. If you can't even manage your own self, how can you marry someone together. To him who's faithful in the little can be given much. And to the ladies, hear this, don't just settle down with any man just because you're in your 30s. Age is just a number. Sometimes the devil sends people to come into your life at that particular age, to frustrate your future. So don't just say, for me, I am not picky and choosy, so anything goes. Forever is too long to be unhappy in a bad marriage. And if you marry by mistake, you'll have to endure it by mistake. Shine your eyes. Marry the man who's in the presence of God, who has a permanent job. Never and ever settle down in marriage with him who has no job, it's foolishness. Forget about " _but I love him_", we don't chop love in marriage, we chop money. You could see clear that even the guy who wants to marry you is suffering to mobilise money for even your bride price, and yet he claims to be ready for marriage. He's not ready financially. Don't settle for the guy who's not organized and who can't even manage his life. Now to the guys, your destiny can be swallowed by a bad marriage in less than 2weeks. Forget about the body, appearance (even though it counts, but it will fade after a while). Marry her if she's matured enough to build together with you. If she's even 15years younger than you but matured in mind to support your dreams, come on, jump quickly into her bosom, she's your capable wife. May the good Lord guide us all in choosing the right partners for marriage. He will prepare you well enough for your marriage. God bless you

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